Know your Rules, safe BDSM    ..

Tips for Safe BDSM Practice, it’s not just a case of guess work as we detailed in the “What’s BDSM” it’s more so about understanding roles and follow rules agreed by both Sub & Dom.

Before you start thinking about engaging in a BDSM role play, both you and your partners have to agree on some ground rules that will define what you are comfortable with, these can even be discussed when members first make contacts. No matter what your Dom & Sub desire, you should only agree to what you want and never feel pressured into something or role you are not happy with.

The best route is an open and frank discussions with your potential contacts, even before dates are made to meet up so that all playmates are both comfortable and confident knowing limits.

If you already have a partner that’s indicated that they are curious about BDSM and you are too nervous to raise the topic, try watching a BDSM video together then bring up the subject. But above all open discussions is the only key to a safe and enjoyable BDSM Lifestyle..

Safe Words …other than STOP …

Agree and know YOUR safe word. We know BDSM is about trust and mutual consent between 2 or in some cases more playmates are the basis of BDSM. When in the middle of some hot and steamy sex game it could well be there is a fine line between dirty talk and honest instructions to slow down or stop, this is when setting up at least one safe word stops any confusion!

Some people will use a single word, others will have 2 it’s down to what lever of control you need – To STOP basically tells your partner you’ve hit your limit and a red light, signal for your partner to stop what they are doing.

Another word whilst it sets a boundary tells them you are getting close to your limit and therefore, they should either slow down or lesson what they are doing, but not stop just be aware and maybe move into a different direction.

Discuss roles try sex games!! If you are not sure how-to startup in BDSM relationship or maybe, you are feeling a self-conscious then why not consider some roleplays game. Watch BDSM porn is also another great source of for ideas and to get people thinking along the lines of role-playing games, often these being, boss and employee, Master & maid, doctor and nurse plus others!

Start slowly, don’t just assume straight away that you are the master or mistress, whilst you may have got the best leather and latex outfits you might not be ready to meet an experienced slave or master.

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