50 Shades of Made Up Bondage   ..

Since a certain film where the dominant male, namely a Mr. Grey & a submissive female slave Anastasia Steele came out the BDSM lifestyle has increased in popularity with more couples and singles playing out roles from 50 Shades Of Grey.

Whilst its enjoying watching these soft porn mainstream BDSM movies, do they really show what Bondage & submission is about? And how many times have we seen a film that does not really depicted realistically what happens, no matter what the subject is. This is the reason there are a few misconceptions about BDSM & Bondage sexual roleplay…

Knowledge is power understand BDSM Lifestyle. When it comes to BDSM, many people are first fascinated with passionate power or outright submission to another, whether that is female or male but understand what the safe practices of BDSM is extremely important, as much as writing your BDSM profile. Enjoying meeting with your master or Mistress revolves around having at least a basic idea of what is expected in your playtimes..

Here are a few tips to guide into the world of BDSM Lifestyle and the world of darker kinks and fetishes, enjoy..

Introduction into BDSM   …

First the word ‘BDSM’ is what is classed as umbrella term, meaning that it can and often does cover a wide topic within the spectrum of kinks, and fetishes, that have a theme on controlling the dynamics between sex partners.

Bondage and Disciple as the name implies is the sexual practice of which a Dominant playmate of either sex use restrains on their partner either leading up to and during sex. The goal being to energize leading the submissive into a situation they do not know where it will lead.

Discipline the role of the dominant allows them to lay out rules for their Submissive to follow, but whilst rules are used all playmates involved pre agree to limits and consented rules beforehand. The acts depending on the relationship could be sexual, like Oral sex, Anal or when instructed carrying out strict bedroom rituals. This could also revolve around sub being made to ‘worship’ or wearing clothes, such as maids and then looking to please dominant. When a Submissive does not please then a determined punishment will or could be given.

Punishments can mean ANYTHING! And range from withholding pleasure or offering a spanking for example. Same as before all punishments and rules must also be discussed & agreed.

Domination or submission, what are YOU. BDSM revolves around two routines of sexual power play, where one person takes on a submissive role following instructions, another partner embodies the more Dominant role. One of the most important points to raise is this “IS” sexual fantasy play and whilst can look wild they are fully consensual and agreed on by both before play.

Whichever role you take whether you are a Dominant, Submissive or even a Switch, you will enjoy immense pleasure from your chosen role and the level of complexity through roleplaying sex games can be as simple or intricate as set up.

Submissive, The Sub role means you agree to willingly give all control to your master / mistress. Trust is a key and for some this can take time & patience before you are truly ready to give total control to another.

Following agreed boundaries is the key to a successful relationship between Sub & Dom and at any point during role playing BDSM, the sub must know they can STOP by using safe words (more on that later)

Master, Dominant role involves you taking control which can included anything from physical, emotional, and sexually when having sex during a BDSM session. Whilst the Dominant will be looking towards exploring their pleasure, it is also a case of meeting the desires of the Sub, hopefully guiding all towards mutual pleasure.

The S & M part of BDSM = ‘Sadomasochism’ the act of deriving sexual pleasure by inflicting or receiving some type or level of consensual pain, and like with Bondage & Domination, levels are pre agreed. And within S&M there are 2 key elements of power play, these are.

Sadism, where the master take pleasure from delivering pain or humiliation with the slave, or slaves. Masochism is where you enjoy receiving the said punishment and on the receiving end.

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